Lingerie Accessories

Over at Cyber Space Babes I read this on older women:

What is it that is so desirable in older women? I can’t speak for others, but I know what draws me in. What attracts me to others is a certain level of maturity, of self-possession, and that isn’t something that all people acquire with age. Confidence, liberal views on sex, love-any type of intimate relationship, acceptance of others as they are, a sense of knowing oneself: that’s all part of maturity.

Her list of attributes (confidence, liberal views on sex, love-any type of intimate relationship, acceptance of others as they are, a sense of knowing oneself) these are all the accessories to wearing lingerie. No matter what your age.

Lingerie offers little to hide behind. It may accentuate, it may attenuate, but it titillates because it shows off not just the flesh but the confidence of the wearer. Her willingness to reveal is an acceptance of herself (and this implies an acceptance of others for most who know and accept thier own flaws are willing to accept the flaws of others). A woman who wears lingerie and shows herself to her lover says, “It’s OK to see me as I am. I don’t need to be airbrushed to plastic prefection. ; I am me; you are you; and we are happy with all that we are.”

There’s a reason it’s called “Intimate Apparel” — it requires intimacy, and not just with another but with yourself. Wearing lingerie shows character, and that takes confidence.

(By the way, I’m not saying that shyness isn’t sexy or attractive for shyness isn’t a lack of confidence — necessarily, anyway.)

Perhaps this is why as a more mature woman I only love lingerie more. I love me, so why not please myself and share myself?

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